My maternity leave started on 4 April 2022, even though my estimated due date is 15 April 2022 (Good Friday). That gives me a good 2-week wait, during which Oliver could choose to make his appearance in the world at any time. I am not a patient person by nature, and when it's something I'm excited about, the wait gets worse.
The discomfort increases as each day goes by. The aches get worse. My boredom at home also increases exponentially. I keep looking out for signs of labour - contractions, bleeding, water bag breaking. I've had multiple false pains - stuff like stomachaches, weird tightening feelings, diarrhoea - but they all go away after a short while. I've been clocking my 10k steps per day, getting my squats and exercises in, doing all sorts of household chores to try and encourage the boy make his descent into my pelvic region. He seems way too comfortable in my belly, though it is proving to be quite a squeeze as he gets bigger and moves around more.
My Dear Boy Oliver,
Mummy is trying her best to wait patiently for you to be ready so that you can make your grand entrance into this world. Daddy and Mummy have gotten your room and cot ready. We've also stocked up on all sorts of books and toys for you to play with when you're out. We are emotionally and mentally prepared to parent you and bring you up so that you will be well taken care of, and also to nurture you in your faith so that you will walk closely with the Lord. We've been reading the bible to you every night for months now, and we will continue to do the same once you're physically with us! Don't be afraid of this world, because we will protect you and keep you safe (for now), till you feel that you're ready to explore it on your own. God will give us the wisdom to know how to best include you in our little family. You're our firstborn, and we will definitely make many mistakes along the way. But know that we love you very much and we always want the best for you! We are very excited for you to join us soon, and we hope that you are equally excited to meet us too :) It's our prayer that you grow in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man, just like Jesus did.
Love, Mummy